A Brief Rant About Homophobia In The Car Community
Last month, during the celebration of Pride Month, my hometown decided to paint a few downtown crosswalks in the colours of the Pride flag. It was supposed to be a symbol of support and solidarity towards the LGBTQ+ community.
Last month, during the celebration of Pride Month, my hometown decided to paint a few downtown crosswalks in the colours of the Pride flag. It was supposed to be a symbol of support and solidarity towards the LGBTQ+ community. But, thanks to one misguided individual, it ended up putting a literal black mark on the reputation of the car community.
Simply put, someone did a burnout on the painted crosswalk and left tire marks all over it. Although the kid that did this didn’t know that the rainbow crosswalk was a symbol of Pride, it was seen as an act of hatred towards the LGBTQ2+ community. Since the population at large tends to associate burnouts with car enthusiasts, this gave local petrolheads a bad name for quite some time.
I’d like to say that it was an isolated incident, but it isn’t. In fact, these acts of vandalism have occurred across the world with much more malicious intent. Obviously, this is not representative of the majority of people within the car community. Yet, it’s not the only way in which petrolheads have been associated with homophobia.
It’s no secret that a few superstars of the car world have made statements that many in the LGBTQ2+ community have taken objection to. Whether it be the above prank played on Jeremy Clarkson while he slept on an airplane, or Richard Hammond’s confusing statement of avoiding ice cream because he wasn’t gay, some of the world’s most popular car enthusiasts have made comments that could be interpreted as homophobic.
I’m not trying to be self-righteous, but I am disappointed with the amount of homophobia that I have experienced within the car community. I’ve really noticed this after buying my NA MX-5, as if someone thought that it would be an insult to call me gay because I drive a Miata. In fact, it’s common for people to express contempt towards certain vehicles (and their owners) by trying to attach them to homosexuality.
Sometimes, the hate is even more blatant. On many occasions, I have been told by car fans that they do not feel comfortable with being a part of the car community because of their sexuality. These people don’t make a dog-and-pony show of their orientation, but are legitimately fearful for the safety of themselves and their cars should they ever be outed at a car meet.
At Car Throttle, we have made it very clear that homophobia will not be tolerated in our community. It is my personal view that everyone should be able to feel safe in the car community, both online and at the local Cars and Coffee. I don’t care what car you drive, what colour your skin is, what your gender is, or who you want to love. Everyone deserves the chance to be welcomed, accepted, and respected. We’re all friends because we share a common interest—cars. We are not a community of jerks and bigots, and we need to make sure that the rest of the world sees us in that same way.
So here’s something that I think we can all do to make a real difference to both the automotive and LGBTQ2+ communities. Before you show up to the car meet or log on to an online forum, leave your prejudices at the door. Leave all the hate there, too. It’s as simple as treating everyone with respect. If you’re like me, the car community is more than just a group of people who like cars. It’s a group of people who share a common understanding and a way of life. Many of us know what it’s like to be alienated, for one reason or another, and it’s not very fun. Let’s do our best to make sure that no other petrolhead feels that way.
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So. Some guy makes a burn out on a side walk crossing. Some people get upset, and we move on with our day. Same guy does it, this time the crossing was decorated for a pride festival. Maybe he did it on purpose, maybe he didn’t. You don’t know. So of course the logical response is anger. The same when a car show known for its offending humor makes a joke. Look, you’ll find extreme homophobes and extreme LGBT what ever plus 4x10^7’s on either side of any group. By now, in this day and age, this issue has been beaten to a pulp and force fed down our throats (speaking from experience in high school. They are adamant on trying to push their views on to you on pride ‘week’ to the point that it’s a bit much). I have nothing against anyone. I have gay friends and family members. I could care less as long as you’re a decent human and doesn’t try to force their views upon someone else. I understand the reason this post was made (though can’t help but think it’s creation had a bit of offense in it, If that makes sense). This is CarThrottle. We are a community of car enthusiasts. We don’t bring politics and relaying topics into cars because that ruins the run, creates bias and anger. Can we keep CarThrottle about cars? Keep politics off? Thanks. :)
Id love to respond to you, i really would. Im just not sure on how to do so in a non offensive, level headed manor.
Imho it doesn’t matter if you’re gay or normal
I don’t care if someone is gay but as soon as you start waving it in my face, then there’s going to be an issue.
My cousin is gay and you can tell but he doesn’t have some fruity haircut, or wears bright clothes and his partner you can’t even tell he is gay. My point is people don’t like it when a gay person goes out of there way to announce every where they go, that they’re gay.
How about we first end racism towards Prius drivers huh?
Wow very tolerant
I agree
Try being a part of the truck community.
Yes, much agree with this article, was a good read too. It just seems that us as petrolheads are usually out of the way of the “general public,” but when we go to do something it usually turns bad, even if it’s not intentional.
IMO LGBT does not exist for me, we are born with both xx or xy chromosome, either boy or girl. It’s just that someone develops a fetish for men as we get older and associate this as them being a certain gender, but their not. If they were not a man but a gay person, then I have to ask them, why do you still have a penis?
This comment is officially the second most twisted sh!t I’ve seen on this site.
I think it’s silly to treat a symbol like it’s something sacred anyway, but to subject the rainbow flag to the indignities of being a crosswalk and then complain about other people failing to show it proper respect is ridiculous. Articles like this are a dime a dozen. They only exist to sow seeds of discontent.